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| TRAINER |
Posted: October 27, 2009 09:20 am
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I was reading online and came across this article. It discusses how actors and actresses deal with intimate love scenes on screen and their real lives.
Then a thought crossed my mind- since reading some models honest posts here regarding their cam work. Some have said it is just a job, a fantasy, entertainment, and what happens in the cam world,stays in the cam world( not the same person in reality). Are there common connections or similarities between performing as a cam model and being an actor or actress on screen? Read the article, and feel free to post your thoughts. Sex Scenes Make Treacherous Terrain for Actors Oct. 20, 2009, 5:09 PM EST By Gina Piccalo TheWrap.com Evan Handler has pretended to have sex with lots of women. His wife, Elisa Atti, knows all about it. Before the 48-year-old regular on Showtime's edgy comedy series "Californication" gets busy on-screen, Atti runs lines with him. And when the torrid scenes featuring Handler, best known as Charlotte's bald husband on HBO's "Sex and the City," are broadcast, Atti often snuggles up with him to watch. But there's one thing the couple rarely does together: talk about the fake sex on the day Handler actually has it. "That would seem particularly provocative," Handler says. Diane Farr spent 13 episodes on FX's wry firefighter drama "Rescue Me" having a steamy affair with a man she described to her husband as super hot: actor Daniel Sunjata. But, just as she did when she nibbled the ear of a co-star on CBS' crime series "NUMB3RS," Farr followed a self-imposed rule: If feigning lust inspires the real thing, save the sizzle for later. On The Wrap: Sex on the Set, Part 2: How Fake Is It, Really? | 12 Sexiest Scenes of All Time | Showtime Sexes Up More 'Californication' "You have to make sure that when that button is pushed," Farr says, "you bring home the response." Or else. For actors in committed relationships, love scenes can be the craft's most treacherous terrain. It doesn't matter that the heavy breathing summoned by the word "Action!" is often awkward and humiliating to perform, what with dozens of crew members on the set, counting down to lunch break. Sex scenes still can hammer away at a couple's sense of trust, revealing old fissures and making room for more. Think of a humid greenhouse, which fools plants into pumping out the plumpest, juiciest tomatoes. That's what film and TV sets can do to emotions. Actors often work 20-hour days, sometimes far from home, fending off boredom between takes by trading intimacies. The bonds that form may be fleeting, but they're intense. "It's kind of like if you go to war with somebody," says actor Scott Conte, a visiting assistant professor at UCLA's School of Theater, Film and Television. "I've done one-day shoots where I've gotten to know the person in a more intimate way than some acquaintances I've had in my life because you're asked to show all these emotions in such a short amount of time. It almost makes you feel like you're further along in the relationships than you actually are." The better the actor, the more convincing the sex scene -- and the more potentially wrenching for the actor's mate. No wonder so many couples devise rituals - some subtle, others more concrete -- that they hope will ease the pain. Where there's smoke, yes, there's often a spark. But that doesn't mean you have to burn the house down. Thus: ground rules. Actor Michael B. Silver, whose many credits include recent episodes of the series "Heroes" and "Brothers & Sisters," fell in love with Katie M. in an acting class after the two did a sex scene from 1977 film "Looking for Mister Goodbar"; they later married. So they know better than most that when you engage your libido in the service of drama, you sometimes can't unring that bell. For that reason, M. and Silver have always been careful about how they talk with each other about their love scenes. Even scripted passion can stoke real chemistry, they say. You'd have to be dead not to react. Still, discretion is key. Silver might mention whether his co-star was flirty or shut-down, but he skips the gory details. M. returns the favor. "We both know it's not natural to be in bed with somebody or to kiss somebody for months where the whole thing is you're in love and then turn it off when you leave the rehearsal hall," says M., whose credits include TV series "Criminal Minds" and "Bones." "It's not natural. And yet, you can do it. Ultimately the technique is more about ethics. If I do get turned on by someone while I'm kissing them, [I know] that's all it was. And then I just walk away." Of course, there are those -- some of them A-listers -- who didn't just walk away. Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt infamously ignited their romance on the set of the sexy action film "Mr. & Mrs. Smith"; (while Pitt was still married to Jennifer Aniston). Richard Burton met then-married Elizabeth Taylor on "Cleopatra." Katharine Hepburn met then-married Spencer Tracy on "Woman of the Year." David Duchovny, who plays a sex-addled novelist in "Californication" checked himself into rehab for sex addiction and separated from his wife, actress Téa Leoni, after the show's second season. Asked about performing sex scenes recently, Duchovny (who has since reconciled with Leoni) told reporters: "You punch in the clock, you go in to work, and you're playing a character. Personally, I'm not somebody that takes it home." Maybe that was the problem. http://tv.msn.com/the-wrap/sex-scenes/story/?gt1=28103 This post has been edited by TRAINER on October 27, 2009 09:23 am -------------------- The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil...is for good men to do nothing
Edmund Burke(1729-1797) Irish Philosopher,statesman Do you know the difference between being in love and loving someone? You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you can never lose women chasing money. When a society fails it's people, it is the people that lead it back to success "Because they can see that we know. That no one can save us, that no one else can save them; only we can save ourselves." |
| UncleLewis |
Posted: October 27, 2009 01:07 pm
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Well as they say "All sex work is just acting.." sometimes with "counterfeit emotions" and sometime with feeling as in "Deep acting.." And I guess that especially true of "camming."
Now can we infer from this article that much regular acting is just "sex work?" If so where's the boundary between commercial cinema and sex commerce? This is the paradox explored by the recent film "The Girl Friend Experience" which we reviewed elsewhere in this section. UL -------------------- "I would no more be a Master than a slave. It does not conform to my idea of Democracy." Abraham Lincoln 1856.
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| CoolBreeze |
Posted: November 16, 2009 01:55 pm
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Good stuff Trainer. Thanks for the article. It is an interesting read, and makes sense. Particularly this part: "You punch in the clock, you go in to work, and you're playing a character. Personally, I'm not somebody that takes it home."
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